She was always defending her children because of her husband. She had very deep trust issues with Phil that were demonstrated during their trust exercise at a local gym. Though she was asked many times to just fall back into Phil's arms, she kept putting one of her legs back to catch her fall because she just did not trust Phil to catch her.
She was 41 years old when she appeared on Supernanny and died at age 42. Phil killed her by grenade, shot her with a shotgun twice in the head, then buried her.
Debbra's Facebook page - Shows maiden name Stacy, and she calls Phil her soulmate.